Solid advice for as long as one can stand only listening.
My experience is as mentioned in the post, people are egocentric and don't bother listening.
That's why I stopped telling others how I feel or how things are after a while, and only superficially pay attention to them. Saves me some energy as well.
It’s great advice.
If you can be intentional going in to a conversation then I think the chances to serving the other person through listening becomes much higher.
It’s truly a gift…offering someone your time and attention. Possibly the most valuable gift you can give - I don’t mean that facetiously.
The Gottmans talk about bids for attention. It’s random comments inviting the other person to engage.
This sounds really similar.
Sometimes listening is hard bc you don't really care or the speaker's way of relaying content and presentation is very boring.
Solid advice for as long as one can stand only listening. My experience is as mentioned in the post, people are egocentric and don't bother listening. That's why I stopped telling others how I feel or how things are after a while, and only superficially pay attention to them. Saves me some energy as well.